Be Weird

In my world, I encourage being weird.

To be weird is to have the courage to be more of yourself. It is to go after and stand up for the things you believe in and want.

Everyone has their unique version of weird. It requires boldness and bravery because most people are taught to fit in and be normal.

What's holding you back from embracing your weird?

In the past, being weird had a negative connotation. I was worried about how others would perceive me; I was afraid that it could create negative career consequences and that the people I cared about would turn their backs on me - I'd be alone.

Standing out and owning who you are will affect every aspect of your life. You can't control how people will respond to your weirdness.

I found freedom, peace, lightness, confidence, and connection on the other side.

Here are some examples of my weirdness:

• I felt nervous about having an uncomfortable conversation with my Pastor. I wanted to serve in church leadership, but I was afraid that who I was would disqualify me. I had the conversation and owned the fact that I was gay, and because of that, I was told I could only serve in non-leadership capacities. The outcome didn't surprise me, but I walked out of the room feeling more confident and peaceful. I was proud of how I showed up.

• I left a lucrative career in IT during the pandemic to run my coaching practice full-time. I was scared, nervous, and excited all at the same time. It's been the most challenging thing I've ever done. I've created connections with people that I never dreamed were possible before.

• While working in Corporate, I would often have back-to-back meetings and work late to finish to-do's or get through email. I got tired of that life and communicated that I would leave 1-hour meetings 10-15 minutes early. This is how I created more space for myself and reduced my stress and hours worked.

What's your weird?

How are you bringing more of who you are to your life and business?

I've got your back if you need support getting to the next level. Get a hold of me.

Be More You.

Shermain